Most people don’t really have the guts and heart to avoid and ignore the bad people from their lives. Toxic people are the ones who never think positive and good about their own selves. How will they ever encourage you or support you to see the goodness in you?
The connection which you’ve built with negative people and the time that you’ve spent with them is purely meaningless.
You might have a confusion what if I suddenly stop talking to them whether they would get hurt or feel depressed. It’s okay that you are concerned about them. But don’t be so foolish and weak; that will drag you and drop you down to their level. To be even more clear; if you want to experience positive vibe in life, then you must first get out of the pessimistic and toxic circle.
Avoiding bad people will eventually reduce the unwanted confusion, stress and sometimes arguments.
You’ll save much more time and energy by removing bad people from your life. There will be times when you can’t avoid some people like your boss, co-workers, friends or even some family members. In such cases, when they speak negatively or badly about you, just distract yourself for that particular moment by thinking about something very exciting or interesting. Just don’t listen to pessimistic people. That’s it.
You grasp what you focus on. So, focus on something very optimistic and amazing.
Just remind yourself that “pessimistic people don’t deserve your attention even for a micro second”.
The energy that you spend on pessimistic people is “simply waste”. So keep calm.
Good life mentor 